The Baby Boomer generation (to which I belong), is notorious for having amassed large collections of “stuff.” From dishes and glassware, to figurines such as Hummels and Lladro porcelain, we have spent our life accumulating, but never purging, our belongings. Now we realize that our children – Generation X, Millennials, and Generation Z – do not want all of our treasures. They tend to be more minimalistic; they purchase items to be used and then passed on or thrown out. While I have boxes saved for each of my children filled with school papers, baby clothes, toys, and books, younger generations tend to get rid of items once they are no longer needed. I don’t think that means they are not sentimental, but rather more practical. They value experiences rather than belongings, and they prioritize spending time with family and friends.
Christmas, and the upcoming birth of our Savior, certainly supports this mindset. Christ, who was born in a lowly stable, had few belongings. He dedicated His life on Earth to helping others, rather than for His own personal gain. Many of our beloved Saints – Francis, Katharine Drexel, Elizabeth of Hungary – were born into wealth, but renounced their fortunes to serve the poor.
As with everything, striving for balance is key. It is okay to take pride in surrounding ourselves with things that bring us joy, but our joy should not be dependent on those things. Helping our children embrace this mentality is key to their emotional maturity. When they attribute their happiness to obtaining a certain pair of shoes, or iPhone, or video game, they have embarked on a dangerous road that will never bring them contentment. If they spend excessive time on social media, comparing themselves to what others have or do, happiness will always elude them. We will only achieve true happiness when we place our hearts and minds in the presence of God, and dedicate our lives to following Him and helping one another. This Christmas, after opening gifts from family and friends, consider helping an elderly neighbor, or visiting with a friend or relative who would enjoy your company.
This week, St. Michael’s School will present three Christmas programs, giving honor and glory to God. I hope both you and our students will find great joy in this experience and treasure the memory in years to come. On behalf of the faculty and staff of St. Michael’s School, we wish each of you a very blessed Christmas and much happiness in the New Year.
In Mission, Kathy